Comments on: Keep my mouth shut or tell like it is http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/ Life after Infertility..Kids Finally Fri, 04 May 2012 18:47:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: blueviolet http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-595 blueviolet Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:18:37 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-595 My sister was once married to somebody who tried his level best to pull her away from the family and especially me. He wanted to control her every move.<br /><br />Fortunately she saw it right away and divorced him within 6 months. My sister was once married to somebody who tried his level best to pull her away from the family and especially me. He wanted to control her every move.

Fortunately she saw it right away and divorced him within 6 months.

]]> By: LZ @ My Messy Paradise http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-594 LZ @ My Messy Paradise Fri, 30 Oct 2009 02:44:15 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-594 Uggh. That stinks, I'm sorry and really feeling for you. I wouldn't be surprised if she's aware of how she's changed...most are and just don't know what to do it about it. <br />Good luck!<br />(and thank you for my awesome award!!) Uggh. That stinks, I'm sorry and really feeling for you. I wouldn't be surprised if she's aware of how she's changed…most are and just don't know what to do it about it.
Good luck!
(and thank you for my awesome award!!)

]]> By: kys http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-592 kys Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:15:54 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-592 I am so sorry for what you are going through. Especially to see history repeating itself in regards to your mother and sister. Hugs. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Especially to see history repeating itself in regards to your mother and sister. Hugs.

]]> By: Heart2Heart http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-590 Heart2Heart Thu, 29 Oct 2009 22:26:46 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-590 Tami, <br /><br />Just maintain communications with your sister is the most important thing. Perhaps the reason you miss her so much is God is laying that love on your heart. It took almost 8 years for my brother and I to reconnect after his former ex felt I was a bad influence for them and kept them away. To this day, my brother regrets every one of those 8 years apart!<br /><br /><br />Love and Hugs ~ Kat Tami,

Just maintain communications with your sister is the most important thing. Perhaps the reason you miss her so much is God is laying that love on your heart. It took almost 8 years for my brother and I to reconnect after his former ex felt I was a bad influence for them and kept them away. To this day, my brother regrets every one of those 8 years apart!

Love and Hugs ~ Kat

]]> By: Thena http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-589 Thena Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:30:01 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-589 Prayers for you and your sister, and your families. Prayers for you and your sister, and your families.

]]> By: Amy http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-588 Amy Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:50:02 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-588 I hope things get better for the two of you. Just call her and tell her how you feel. I hope things get better for the two of you. Just call her and tell her how you feel.

]]> By: Kimi http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-587 Kimi Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:29:16 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-587 This is so sad. Hugs to you and your sister. This is so sad. Hugs to you and your sister.

]]> By: Just Breathe http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-586 Just Breathe Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:16:41 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-586 ((HUGS)) Thought you needed this. ((HUGS)) Thought you needed this.

]]> By: Menopausal New Mom http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-585 Menopausal New Mom Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:12:41 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-585 No wonder you are sad. I'm so sorry that you are having problems with in laws that are preventing you from being able to enjoy the time you spend with your sister.<br /><br />I hope at some point she has her eyes opened and makes some tough decisions about how she wants to live her life. Family is so important which I know first hand. I lost my little brother 11 years ago when he was only 32 and I have never gotten over it, at least on the inside. Outwardly, no one would know how devastated I still am to this day. <br /><br />Chin up, I hope things get better for you and I'm thankful that you still have the opportunity to be with your sister regardless of how stressful the circumstances. No wonder you are sad. I'm so sorry that you are having problems with in laws that are preventing you from being able to enjoy the time you spend with your sister.

I hope at some point she has her eyes opened and makes some tough decisions about how she wants to live her life. Family is so important which I know first hand. I lost my little brother 11 years ago when he was only 32 and I have never gotten over it, at least on the inside. Outwardly, no one would know how devastated I still am to this day.

Chin up, I hope things get better for you and I'm thankful that you still have the opportunity to be with your sister regardless of how stressful the circumstances.

]]> By: Andrea http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-584 Andrea Thu, 29 Oct 2009 19:58:30 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-584 Tami,<br /><br />I am praying for you. I lost my youngest sister tragically when she was 17 yrs old. My middle sister and I are very close. We live many miles a part, but after the loss of one sibling we made a commitment that NO MATTER WHAT....NOTHING would ever come between us. It has been 20 years this year and so far so good with our commitment. <br />It takes two to make this commitment, but I pray your sister will not allow anything to come between you. Sometimes it means agreeing not to discuss something or in your case meeting in a place where the offender is not invited. I would have an extremely difficult time tolerating your brother in laws behavior, too. I would not be able to be around him when he was acting that way.<br />Hang in there!<br />Praying for you, <br />andrea<br /><br />PS: Sitka has an award for you at http://andrealuvsallgodscreatures.blogspot.com<br />It is the second post down. Tami,

I am praying for you. I lost my youngest sister tragically when she was 17 yrs old. My middle sister and I are very close. We live many miles a part, but after the loss of one sibling we made a commitment that NO MATTER WHAT….NOTHING would ever come between us. It has been 20 years this year and so far so good with our commitment.
It takes two to make this commitment, but I pray your sister will not allow anything to come between you. Sometimes it means agreeing not to discuss something or in your case meeting in a place where the offender is not invited. I would have an extremely difficult time tolerating your brother in laws behavior, too. I would not be able to be around him when he was acting that way.
Hang in there!
Praying for you,
andrea

PS: Sitka has an award for you at http://andrealuvsallgodscreatures.blogspot.com
It is the second post down.

]]> By: Lee the Hot Flash Queen http://heartsmakefamilies.com/2009/10/keep-my-mouth-shut-or-tell-like-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-583 Lee the Hot Flash Queen Thu, 29 Oct 2009 19:26:26 +0000 http://heartsmakefamilies.com/?p=190#comment-583 I am so sorry for you! That is terrible when there is someone standing in your way of family. I have that same issue with my older brother and his wife. I am so sorry for you! That is terrible when there is someone standing in your way of family. I have that same issue with my older brother and his wife.

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