Help me! Help me! I can’t tell them they are driving me insane. As a goodwill gesture when we picked up our order from Angel Food Ministries,I took over the food that we had doubles off. Remember how I had mentioned that my neighbors had brought food over to us to help us out. Now I am recipirocation as much as I can as well. We get fruits and vegetables in our order. Some of which we don’t eat. But they do old country cooking and will. I share it with them.
I went over at 9 am this morning. In my best mood,they try my patience. I thought I was going to just drop it off. They talked me into working on the computer. While I’m there,they put together more cereal,noodles and things to help us. Half the stuff I will be giving away to others since I won’t use it. So I’m feeling like I am indebted again.
I finally get to leave like 4 hours later. Their kids come with me to play with mine. Now this means that I have to watch them closely because I can’t trust what will happen. I still have that eerie feeling with them.
Going on two more hours,please leave. Am I bad?
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Aw,hon…you’re not bad. You’re just doing the best you can. That’s why God created Xanax.
And hugs…Here’s yours ((( )))
Jayne
No,you are not bad! Actually,it sounds like,what you are,is understandably EXHAUSTED!!! Hope you can work this out soon!
I would be wanting the same thing too! You’re not bad!
OMG tami! Your neighbors scare me- privacy is SACRED. 6 hours in all? I’m thinking now- friendly is sweet,provided it ends- am i sounding mean? ouch!
God bless tami- God bless!
Wow….I’m not completely sure I understand what is happeninhg in this story,but it sounds like you need to practice how to say “NO”. LOL
its gotta be hard!!! Following you now~~~
Sorry you’re neighbors are crazy! Hope it gets better!
Oh goodness!
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I have to agree with all of the above comments! Hope that you can work this out!
Have a blessed rest of the weekend!
Blessings &Aloha!
You’re a good person. Better than I woulda been
Feeling like you are indebted can be a huge weight to bear. But,if htis happens often you can put make limits. Like let them stay for a few hours on certain pre-determined day.
Angel Food ministries…I have a flyer for them but am embarrassed to contact them even though we really could use the help. I know,pride goeth before a fall…but I have always been the helper so asking for help is just not in my vocabulary!
Hang in there and life will get better…the alternative is just not acceptable!